The Word You've Been Getting Wrong Your Whole Life
Success (modern definition): Attaining wealth, favor, or eminence for oneself. Getting. Collecting. Accumulating.
Succeed (biblical definition): To pass to a person by inheritance. Giving. Transferring. Blessing others.
This isn't semantics. This is the difference between raising a child who impresses people at cocktail parties versus one who changes lives in boardrooms, classrooms, and communities.
When you reframe parenting around "succeeding" instead of "success," everything shifts. Your child stops asking "What can I get?" and starts asking "What can I give?"